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Toddler Bed Ready?

Updated: Mar 11



Some parents are excited to transition their child to a #toddlerbed because it's a symbol that their baby is growing up. Others are a little apprehensive, either because they are worried it might not go so well, or...because it's a symbol that their baby is growing up. Wherever you fall on the spectrum, you may be wondering, "What is the right age to make the toddler bed transition?"


There is no magical age that is right for this transition. Every child is as unique as snowflakes are. As a sleep consultant, my answer will always be to wait as long as possible. The transition to a toddler bed is a big one, and it gives your child a new freedom.


If you have a really chill and laid back child, you may have no problems getting him to stay and sleep in the new bed. On the other hand, if you have a very curious or feisty child, he may just see this as an opportunity to explore the new freedom. Imagine that you were dropped off in your dream vacation spot but told you had to stay in the hotel, would you listen? Ask yourself this: Given some toys and the direction to stay in a room and play, how long can you leave your child in that room unattended before he leaves to explore or gets into something you don't want him into? If your answer is only about a minute or two...wait to make the toddler bed transition!


The above scenario is essentially what you are doing when putting your child in a toddler bed, except you're leaving him unattended all night long. Unless you need the crib for another baby on the way, there really is no reason to rush it. Even if there is a new baby on the way, consider using a bassinet for a few months and wait to evict your toddler from the crib until the baby actually needs to use it. You want to make sure that your toddler is old enough to understand how to follow a direction even when you are not there to reinforce it.

Now let's talk about climbers. Many parents who have babies that climb out of the crib think that they may as well just go ahead and make the transition since the baby isn't staying in the crib anyway. When babies #climboutofthecrib, they at least have to make an effort to get out because there is a barrier. Do you think this type of child will stay in a toddler bed when there is nothing holding him back? He will most likely just be out even quicker! If this is the problem you are facing, don't fret. Here are some #momhacks you can try to keep him in the crib longer:


1. Take all of the metal parts off of the crib and lay the mattress on the floor, still inside the crib. This will make it harder for him to reach the top to climb out. *However, you must make sure that the mattress cannot slide out from under the crib. If it can, this is not a safe option to try.


2. If your crib has a back that is higher than the front, you can try turning it around so the shorter side is against the wall.


3. Use a sleep sack or sew a thin strip of fabric between the legs of your child's pajamas. This will allow him to still move around, but he won't be able to get one leg up and over the top of the crib as easily.

When you are ready to transition to a toddler bed, here are some tips to make the transition easier:


1. Start by trying it out for naps first. Once your child gets used to the bed, and consistently stays in it for naps, then you can try bedtime too.


2. Make it fun! Get bedding that has a favorite character or fun colors so your child will be excited to sleep in it. Do a special reveal and let him explore it.

3. Have a favorite stuffed animal or blanket make the transition with him. Or try getting a new stuffed animal that is special and can only sleep with him in the new bed.


4. If needed, stay in the room with your child for a night or two as he falls asleep in the new bed. By "in the room", I don't mean in bed with him, or right next to him holding his hand. Sit in a chair or on the floor, but not right next to him. You want him to know you're there without creating a dependency on you being there. This will assure him that he is safe and you are there if needed. You will also be there to gently remind him to stay in bed if he tries to get out.


5. The most important thing is to make sure the room is safe in case he does get out of bed to explore unattended. Cover all outlets, make sure cords are out of reach (including ones on window blinds), make sure windows are locked, and pick up any clutter off the floor so there isn't a tripping hazard. Don't forget surrounding rooms in case your child leaves his room (or put up a gate so he can't).

The transition to a toddler bed is a big one, but it doesn't have to be challenging if you wait until your child is really ready and follow these simple tips to help make it easier on them.


~Ashley Bell, pediatric sleep consultant


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